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QUESTIONS

Q: Do you perform same sex ceremonies?
A: Most definitely


Q: What happens if I can’t decide what type of ceremony I want?
A: We will work together to understand what exactly you want in your ceremony. Then I will offer you guidance as to how to proceed.


Q: How do we obtain our marriage license?
A:
• In SC:
One or both members of the couple have to be between 18 and 25. Both applicants must be physically present to apply for a marriage license before a probate judge or county clerk, and must be a valid photo ID or Social Security card to prove their age. No blood tests are necessary. The cost differs depending on the county
• In GA: Applicants must be at least 18 years old. There are no residency requirements. Applicants must be at least 18 years old. There is no residency requirement in GA. except under certain circumstances, depending on whether the couple resides in GA or out of state. Out of state couples must apply in the county where the wedding will take place.
• In NC: Both parties must consent to take each other "freely and seriously" and this must be done in the presence of two adult witnesses. This declaration of consent must precede the minister or magistrate declaring that the couple is now
some combination of husband and wife, as agreed upon by the couple.
• In FL: Couple must apply in person at the county clerk’s office and they must have a valid government photo ID to prove their identities. Blood test requirements vary by county. They must prove their identities with a valid government-issued photo ID. There is a 3 day waiting period between the date of the application and the date of the ceremony. Couples who can show that they
completed a premarital preparation course will have the waiting period waived. Fees vary by county


Q: How far in advance should we book you?
A: I recommend 3-6 mos. in advance, especially between the months of April and October. Short-term bookings are accepted outside of these dates.


Q: Should we invite you to the reception?
A:It really isn’t necessary. The officiant rarely stays for the reception, and leaves once the marriage license is taken care of.

Q:How long will you hold our date?
A: I will hold the date for 5 days after the initial communication. This gives us time to meet and have a discussion, as well as allow you time to think about it and make a decision with which you are comfortable.

YOU CHARGE WHAT???

Wedding officiants are constantly asked why they charge so much. Bear in mind that the
charge is all-inclusive, and our services go beyond the ceremony itself: officiants’
services encompass personalized script writing, pre-ceremony meetings & counseling,
attending the rehearsal, and the legal handling and submission of the marriage license.
Wedding officiants use their expertise and training , investing time to craft unique and
meaningful ceremonies. The complexity and length of the ceremony as well as the
geographic location also influence the cost, with more elaborate and destination
weddings requiring higher fees.


Q: Why do wedding officiants charge as much as they do?
A: The wedding officiant’s job is very time consuming. Bear in mind the price is all
inclusive. Consider the following:


• Neither mileage nor gas are charged for separately (see contract)
• Factor in driving time to and from the ceremony (see contract)
• The initial meeting usually lasts 45 minutes to 1 hour.
• Most custom ceremonies last longer than 15 minutes, usually taking close to 30
minutes
• It takes the officiant at least an hour to write the ceremony
• Attendance at the rehearsal
• Add 30-45 minutes for email communications to ask and answer questions. The
officiant advises on several things in addition to the ceremony such as marriage
licenses, and wedding etiquette.
• Wedding officiant’s must absorb the cost of business expenses, advertising, and
travel in their services.

Serving all of South Carolina, Georgia, North Carolina, & Northern Florida

Email: Bespoke25@icloud.com
Phone: (803) 293-5909

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